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Marriage ! Made in heaven - Download book | Tuesday, November 18, 2008 |

Finally the day has arrived - the day when I launch my latest book, the much awaited book form of my most appreciated story series "Marriage 'not' made in heaven". Though I had planned to upload the book here immediately after returning from Diwali vacation. But I didn't quite get the time to put everything together. I wanted this book to be special, something more than my earlier books. So, was wandering what else to add besides the main story. And then designing the cover of the book was a big issue. I couldn't zero in on some particular design. After much thinking and head scratching, I designed 4 different covers and picked the 3rd one. The wait is over now. Here's giving you the book, so that you can read it all in one place, even offline.

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Marriage not made in Heaven - The BookDownload Book

Click on the book cover to see the full size book cover. Click on the download icon on its right to download the zipped book. The zip contains the book in PDF format, some fonts that might be needed and a 'Read Me' file. Enjoy the book. There are some extra features in the book, other than the 6 Episode story; for instance - 'Behind the Scene' section and alternate book covers. Enjoy the book.

Synopsis :

For those of you, who didn't follow the story as it was being published here - here's a synopsis of the book.

This is a typical story of 'guy meets girl and love blossoms'. But its not really that typical. They didn't meet ever. They were just web friends. Or were they? There was definitely something special about them that always kept them together, inspite of their numerous chat fights. But they didn't think it was love. How can you love someone whome you haven't even seen, right? Then one day the girl tells him that she's getting married. He felt his world crashing down. Next thing he knew was that he landed in her city the very next day, to make her his own. What happens next? Does he win his love? How they fared against all the opposition from parents and even god, who played spoilsport very often. There's a saying that 'Marriages are made in heaven'. But their's wasn't - definitely. Then how did they make it work on earth? Come join the journey of a guy, out to win his lady love.

Ohhh, I'd like to take your opinion about the book cover. So, here are the four alternate book covers. Let me know which one you like the most -













Ok now, go on. Read the book. It took me a great deal of effort in the designing of the book. So, if you like the design and the content, do leave a comment or your views here. I'd like that a lot. After all, its your love that keeps me going here. :) I might write a sequel to this story. Just keep a watch here for updates. For the time being, Adieu.

Related : You can find my previous books for free download HERE.

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Survey for Episode 6 | Tuesday, August 12, 2008 |

Survey
Hi there. I hope you people are liking the love-story series that I'm currently writing here. The numerous reader responses that I'm getting as comments, mails and GTalk pings are over-whelming. So, I thought why not involve my readers here...!!

So far, I've written 5 Episodes for the series "Marriage : 'Not' made in heaven". The lead couple found their true love, met each other, faced some hardship, took the plunge and finally arrived at Bangalore. But what next? That's gonna be in the Finale Episode. I have something in mind. But my partner doesn't quite like my idea. :$ So, why not check what you people think?

Hope you've already read the last five episodes. If not, check the links below. And then take the survey. I'll write the story of the final episode based on what most of the respondents suggest. The names of those respondents will also be published here, to give them due credit.


Previously in the Series :


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To open the survey in a new, full window page, Click This.

The survey closes on 31st August 2008 at 11:59 PM. Respond before that and. be a part of the series. Ohhh, did I tell you that I'll roll out the whole series as a PDF book later on and all the respondents will be credited there as well. So, keep posting your views here.
Survey duration increased by another month. So, you can still post your views. Now the survey ends on 30th September at 11:59 PM.

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Best of 2007 | Friday, January 11, 2008 |

Hi there. Sorry, I haven't been posting that often. I won't blame it on being busy. Actually, I've been a tad lazy lately. Though there were lots to write about, just didn't find enthu enough to sit and hammer the keyboard. That's how my end of year post never saw the daylight.

Anyways, as I was checking my feeds in netvibes this morning, I came across this post on Deepak's blog. And that got me interested in reviving the 'Best of 2007' post of my own. Ata-Boy Deepak. You influence me in more than one way. ;)

Ok Now, here's my list of 'Best 5' things of 2007.

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Best movies that I watched


  • Bourne Ultimatum. The best bourne / spy movie that I've ever seen. You won't get bored even for a single second. A detailed review here

  • 300. Surely one of the best 'graphic novel' adaption. Excellent look, action sequences and rock in the background. Must watch.

  • Die Hard 4. Frankly, I'm not a DieHard franchise and haven't scene any earlier installments either. But this movie made me buy the earlier part DVDs. Mind blowing action. And lots of tech talks too.

  • Resident Evil 3. Year of sequels, I guess. The best of RE series, till date. Some awesome zombie action. Much better than 'I am Legend'. Review of the two here and here

  • Life in a Metro. Truly an amazing movie. Depicts the life of Metro citizens as it is. FP Review

Another couple of movies that are worth a mention are Chak De India and Shoot 'em Up


Worst movies that I watched


I saw more crappy movies than good movies. So, picking out the worst 5 is harder than Best 5. Anyways, here they are -
  • No Smoking. Worst hindi movie I've ever seen. I was feeling like smacking my head on the monitor.

  • Gandhi My Father. Donno what critics saw in this movie. I just couldn't bear it. Got a huge headache by the end of it.

  • Cheeni Kum. Another acclaimed movie that I just hated. Even Nishabd was better than this. Atleast, Zia Khan was worth a watch. :p

  • Jhoom Barabar Jhoom. Preity disappointed me big time. Senseless plot and not so 'happening' nach-gana.

  • Hostel 2. Hostel series is always over-rated. Just hated this one as well.

Some other big disappointments are - Harry Potter 5, Aaja Nachle, Bhool Bhulaiya etc. I know almost 60% people loved these movies, but they failed to impress me. HP5 was worst of all HP movies. Aaja Nachle wasn't worth Madhuri's comeback vehicle. And, Bhool Bhulaiya was complete hotchpotch for me. Attempting comdey, horror, suspense, musical - al at the same time had its cost.

Best Hindi Songs


  • Tum Se Hi [Jab We Met] - Amongst the best lovey-dovey song of all times.

  • Bol Naa Halke Halke [Jhoom Barabar Jhoom] - The only saving grace of that movie is this song. Hum along.

  • Ke Bin Tere [Aggar] - Mithoon's music rocks the chart, once again. Awesome lyrics. Sang with passion.

  • To Phir Aao [Aawarapan] - Great music. Similar to Atif Aslam genre.

  • Alvida [Metro] - Put all the passion of a heart-break and sing this song.


Best Applications [Desktop / Web]


  • Orkut / GTalk / Blogger. Grouped them all together as otherwise this list will become google dominated. They effected our lives like nothing else ever did.

  • Netvibes. Maintaining the feeds of different sites / blogs was never this easy.

  • VLC Media Player. The best media player there is. Plays all formats of media.

  • Picasa. Both the Desktop application and the web album. Made photo album management so easy.

  • Firefox - still rules the web scene, IE7 not-withstanding.


My Best Posts




This is what I can think of right now. Lemme know what was best in 2007 according to you. Leave your list as comment. Or mention just any one thing. NJoy. :)

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What did you do? | Wednesday, January 02, 2008 |

A very very happy new year to all of you and your family n friends. The occasion of new year is a little like the diwali festival when you wish your near and dear ones. Apart from this, I think the 'new year' celebration is always over the top, and uncalled for. Nonetheless, if this cheers people up, it's perfectly ok.

When you say 'Happy New Year' to someone, the very first thing after exchange of pleasantries is the question - "So, what did you do on 31st night?" There's no exception to this unwritten 'rule' and every single person follows it. So, before you ask me what I did this new year eve - here it is.

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We were allowed to leave office by 5PM. But I stayed back till 8 as all my friends were still in their offices. Still I was 1st person to reach home. Real party started post-10PM. We didn't go out to some 'new year spcl' party. Instead some 10 friends gathered at my place and hit the floor. That was followed by lavish dinner, chicks [as in, chicken actually], beer and rocking music. 11:45. It was time to prepare to burst into 2008. A huge box of crackers came handy. We all stepped into the new year with much spark and noise, thanks to the non-stop burst of crackers. After all of them were extinguished, we settled for movies. Couldn't find anything brand new; so watched 'F4 : Rise of silver surfer' and 'Die hard 4' - back to back. It was late night and with a huge headache - it was time to hit the sack.

1st Jan - the new day of the new year. I started with buying some new stuff and giving my flat a new look. It wasn't really planned to coincide with the new year day. The official holiday facilitated it. Took 3 snazzy cots and rearranged my room. Now, it no longer looks like a "extreme bachelors' den". ;) Things are much more organized now and due to proper placement of trolley, bags n stuffs - which were all strewn in the extra room ever since shifting here- we've got a brand new dining room. Isn't that great?

Next step was cataloging my DVD collection. Replaced all the thick DVD-cases with slick ones. That made a lot of extra space in my DVD carton to accommodate more DVDs. At last count, there are 100+ DVDs with 250+ movies. WOW. Even I was shocked and thrilled. Think I'll start something like my own SeventyMM service. :p


Ohhh, New Year resolution. Well, I never really make a 'New Year Resolution' 'coz they turn out to be worse than promises of politicians on election campaigns. After a month or so, all resolutions are forgotten.

Well, that was all for New Year celebration. When back in office this Wednesday - everything is back to normal again. Again that 11 - 6 routine job. Let's hope for something 'New' here. Anyways, lemme know how was it for you? What did you do on new year eve? Leave a comment and lemme know.

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Review : Welcome Resident Evil | Tuesday, December 25, 2007 |

Two movie reviews for this week. Well, unlike last time, this time around you can call them 'reviews' as the movies I'm gonna talk about aren't that old. In fact, one of them released just this week. The two movies are - Resident Evil : Extinction and Welcome. Luckily, both these movies were more than just OK and somewhat fabulous. Saw some other movies also, but they are not worth a mention here. Let's being.

Resident Evil : Extinction - PosterResident Evil : Extinction. There's a saying that movie sequels never work. They are always inferior to their predecessors. There are just very few movies that were able to prove it wrong. Terminator and Bourne are the only two that I can think of right now. Matrix 3 was the biggest disappointment of all times. Lord of the Rings : Return of the King was supposedly the best 3rd part of a trilogy. And now there's Resident Evil [RE]. Really, it is RE = Reply to all those critics who had ripped apart earlier installation of this Screen adaption of the computer game by the same name. Resident Evil 1 was a good one. Though part 2 lacked the chill, it was worth a watch. But to better that and all things till now, here's RE3.

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The movie starts with the usual escape bid of Alice, which turns out to be her clone. She's now a sophisticated human weapon with high-psychological abilities and can control things with her mind. A little bit of supernaturalism, huh ...?? Anyways, the story doesn't make much progress this time. All you get is - Alice destroys Umbrella Corps' American facility and is on her way to the headquarters [next movie], along with lots n lots of her clones. She now knows that her blood is the cure to virus spread. 4th movie seems highly promising.

Things to watch out for in this 3rd installment is the awesome action sequences. The best one is when the convoy of survivors reaches Vegas. Can't describe it in words. Just edge of the seat, breath-taking action. Mila gave a great performance. All those maneuvers and free form fights reminded me of Prince of Persia game. Specially the Twin blade throat cut is Wow. Check some snapshots below.






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And oh, the cinematography is just beautiful. Some great camera work and visual effects and every frame of the movie just comes alive. Never knew it'd look so good even when the world is a barren land. :p Go watch this movie - theater or get yourself a DVD.


Welcome - PosterAhh. Welcome. Another comedy crapper of Akshay Kumar. He's now so adapt to these roles that he almost sleep walks through out the movie. He's became repeatative. Still, he manages to make us laugh. But, how many are having hearty laugh and how many are laughing just for the heck of it, is doubtful. I mean, some people in the theater were laughing their heart out even on lousy jokes. Akshay is like the new king of comedy for the masses and not laughing to his jokes is like dis-respecting the king. So, laugh anyway. Secondly, people don't want to be disappointed by a Akshay Kumar movie. So, they console themselves by enjoying every possible 'funny' scene. Thus, Akshay is now a safe bet for any producer. Public will make sure that his movie is not a flop by saying 'Wah Wah' even if they didn't really like it.

That said, let me tell you that Welcome is not a bad movie either. It's good for time-pass. And if you're watching it second time, it's gotta be for Katrina Kaif. She's hot like hell and more pretty than ever. There's not even a single frame where she's anything less than an angel. Anyways, the movie. It's again copy of some Hollywood movie, [Forgot the name]; just as all Nadiadwala movies are these days. It's full of forced comedy, with just a few exceptions. Whilst the 'stirring in hand' road accident scene was 'forced', the 'crematorium' scene was really funny. All that confusion surrounding the dead body was really situational comedy that makes me laugh. Climax was again very cliche' with all the chaos. I just hate that 'life in balance on edge of cliff' formula. Firoz Khan is totally wasted here. Nana gave a few nice performances. Don't have high expectations. Go watch this movie just to relax.


And, some off-topic [non-review] observations here. We watched Welcome in Rex theater. It's a blot on the face of Brigade Road. Even my little home town cinema hall was better than this. Still, Rex makes a huge profit every week; thanks to it's location and seat-availability. Situated at the prime location of Brigade road, the heart of the IT city, and surrounded by so many MultiNational retail-chain marts - Nike, McDonald, CafeCoffee Day, Pizza corner, Barista, Planet M and many many more. The biggest crowd puller of the entire city. If anyone wants to see a movie, the nearest option is Rex. Though Inox [@ Garuda mall] is not very far, tickets for current show is rarely available there. Thus, Rex is doing a brisk business, even-though it lacks in service quality.
Moral of the story : It doesn't matter who you are or how u are. What matters is - where you are. :)

And oh, I went to Rex almost after a year. Last time, I was there on my B'day with some friends - watching Dhoom 2. That was one of the most happy day of my life. While watching 'Welcome', I was remembering that dear friend who got separated by time and distance. Some memories - die hard.


Anyway, one more movie that I watched just today is - Saawariya. This movie was among the most eagerly awaited movie of the year; but when it released this Diwali - all the critics just ripped it apart. I didn't get a chance to watch it a until now. And, am I again angry on those headless silly critics? :@ This movie isn't half that crappy as it is made out to be. In fact, in some sequences, it touches the heart. Specially the climax. Every one can identify with this, remember their 1st broken heart. Maybe all the sets look artificial n stuff, but still the movie doesn't deserve the bad treatment it got. I atleast loved this movie. What do you have to say? Cast your opinion in the poll alongside or leave a comment.

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Weekend in Bangalore | Monday, October 22, 2007 |

This weekend was longer than usual. No, not hypothetically. Really it was. Friday the 19th was also a holiday, owing to the Durga Puja. Well, it doesn't feel like Durga Puja here in Bangalore. Back home in Bengal, Durga puja is the biggest event every year. But here, no trace of that except for some friends fasting for navaratri and Ayudh Puja at office. Well, I don't do fasting n Puja n all that. I don't believe in all these. It's not that I'm an atheist. It's just that I can't fathom these 'technique' of pleasing the gods. I mean, through-out the year you're doing sins, eating chicken, boozing, cursing god for your hardship; and suddenly during puja time - U become all saint, go veg and praising the god for their blessings. It's just like govt. officials' behavior during special inspection. Whom are we faking?

Tomato Onion StewAnyways, I'm not here to give my judgment on religions. Lemme update you with some happenings of this weekend. Last week I'd seen Bourne Ultimatum. Was so much mesmerized by it that I started reading the next installment of the series Bourne Legacy immediately after that. Finished it this Saturday night and then found out that there's no food in the kitchen. I was so engrossed in reading the final chapters that I didn't take dinner and by the time I finished, it was past midnight. All shops closed and nothing in kitchen. That made me more hungry. :(

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After thorough search of the kitchen - all I found was onions and tomato. What the hell...!! What do I do with these? But with nothing else at hand, that's what I used. Made something like a stew / soup of tomato and onion. Though it didn't look good - it tasted great. :$ Maybe because I was damn hungry. Learnt my lesson - always keep some provisions in kitchen - atleast one Maggie pack.

Emergency ProvisionsSo, 1st thing on Sunday - I did some kitchen shopping, primarily some 'emergency' eatables; Maggie, Biscuits, chips. They could've lasted for a week. But, when the food is in kitchen - who's stopping me...?? :$ Half the provision is already consumed. It's still depleting as I write this. Go figure.

Ok, some more laughing stock for you. Last week we had a friendly mini 20-20 match with live commentary, own press coverage et al. :D The photographer was a little ameture and thanks to that, we got some really funny snaps. See two of them below. Click them to open in full size. Now, which one do you find more funny? Cast your opinion in the poll box.

Pic 1 : GuyPic 2 : Gal


Free photo prints from ZoomInOh, another high point of last week was the free color photo prints from ZoomIn. That really made my week. Every now and then I'm taking out the snaps from my closet and peering at them. I'm like a child who's got his 1st B'day gift. :) When everything is going digital, there are some things that are better in the conventional way. Just as a handwritten mail delivered to your doorstep is better than an email; a hardcopy photograph is better than a digital photo on your computer screen. And when you get it for free, what more can you ask for? So, if you want your digital photos to be printed for free, drop your email id as comment here [Click 'Leave a Reply' below]. I'll send you a referral link asap. You'll get 30 free prints for Rs28 [courier charges] if you use my referral link.

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Do we really love Cricket? | Wednesday, October 03, 2007 |


The 2nd Guest Post is by Uttam Sarkar, one of my colleagues. His post is in response to my earlier post Everything back to cricket. I had cross-posted it on our intranet also, which drew wide-spread reactions. Hear out what he's got to say -


There was an interesting posting in the intranet ‘Everything back to Cricket’, there were few comments on that. As we are living in a democratic country we all have the right to express our views. It’s very tough to say who is right and who is wrong. One thing is sure - we are all cricket lovers. But that also made me think which part of Cricket we really love or worship? If a simple question is asked “Are you a Cricket fan?” May be 99% will answer in affirmative “Yes, I’m”. Yes, we are all…we know the rules of the game, we know what is leg-by, what is play down, what is square cut, what is bowl-out. Yes, we know the pat between Chappell and Saurav. Some of us can give you India’s next two years international schedule or tell you how many sports bikes MS Dhoni is having specifying their horse power, someone may surprise us telling Sachin’s wife Anjali Tendulkar’s DOB. The way we cheered Yuvi’s six sixes, the way we danced in front of TV set after beating South Africa and Australia, the way we shouted and danced once Shreesanth took Misbah’s catch of Joginder Singh, it was just unparalleled. We distributed sweets, one of my friends spoiled her voice after cheering for India. We welcomed our victorious T20 World Champion team giving them salutes and showering with huge prize money, which they deserve. Similarly, we did not even hesitate to chase poor Dhoni’s look-a-like and was forced to tonsure his head after India’s World Cup debacle in West Indies. These are no doubt we Eat Cricket, Drink Cricket and Sleep Cricket!! But I have a hidden doubt, is this Cricket or a specific part of Cricket we are crazy for?

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Let me go one step down from International Cricket; let’s focus on our domestic Cricket. I’m not sure how many of that ‘99%’ cricket fans follow Ranji Cricket and can recall the names who represent their state in Ranji Trophy in a single go. If we can manage the names, it may be too hard to say where our state stands except last four teams. I’m not sure how many of us know that 21 years old Manoj Tiwari and 29 years old Ranadeb Bose of Bengal were the highest run getter and highest wicket taker respectively in the last season’s domestic Cricket. The names like Amol Mazumdar of Mumbai and Kanwaljit Singh of Hyderabad, who are at the edge of retirement from Cricket remained inside the empty stadium as nobody cheered for them except those 30 white dressed gentlemen.

If there is an International Cricket match we can see there is a long queue 24 hrs before opening the ticket counter, people do not mind spending the night in the queue. Nobody minds if you just sign in and sign out saying “Wow!! there is a India-Pakistan match yaar”. If it is a domestic match? Very few of us know who is playing and for what they are playing in an empty stadium. It is as if those 30 white dressed gentlemen have no work in the world they are just doing time pass. We don’t even realize that those 30 white dressed gentlemen are in the way of making another Sachin, Sourav, Rahul, Yuvraj or Dhoni for whom we will cry if they fail and we will not hesitate to spoil our voice by cheering if they win.

When we see a new face into Indian team we keep wondering whether he bowls or bats until he figures in last eleven. Just few day back when Rohit Sharma lifted last ball six of Van der Wath and played a superb innings, very next match we could see a girl holding a placard ‘Rohit Sharma, will you marry me’. He became a national hero. A complete TOI page on him. This same Mumbai lad Rohit Sharma once smashed a 45 balls century in domestic T20 Cricket, he is the only T20 centurion in Indian Cricket. I guess not all ‘99%’ knew this before that innings.

even cows had free access in that multi-purpose stadium

The media coverage for International match - I don't need to say anything; but for domestic Cricket - it's just ‘8 cm X 12 cm’ area in the last page to cover at least four matches. Live coverage for domestic Cricket is awful; the broadcaster uses the minimum optimal cameras to cover the game. The energy level of the commentator is as if he was on fast for last two days and just taking care of the equipments. Once I had the privilege of watching Assam-Bengal Ranji Group match. The pitch was slightly better than our clay roads and I guess even cows had free access in that multi-purpose stadium when there is no match.

Yes, BCCI has increased the prize money for domestic Cricket. These domestic Cricket heroes manage to get a job in some good public sectors. Is money the only reason we all are crazy for Cricket?

Dear friends, my intention is not to hurt anybody’s sentiments towards the game or doubt anybody’s Cricketing knowledge. After yesterday’s topic in the intranet I thought - do we really love Cricket or we just love our Cricketers? Are we real Cricket Fan or just fan of International Cricket?

These are the reactions to this post in our Intrnet -

Jayateerth R Katti : Great thought Uttam..
This forced me to think that I am only International cricket fan :(

Sandeep Sharma :Definitely !! It is surprising we do not love our cricket but kinda love media attention.
Wherever media focuses attention, we start following that. It is also in our mind. We are biased against domestic cricket. Organizers are to be blamed for this, who neither publish schedule nor market or advertise it well. Also, they do not provide good pitches and stadium to domestic cricketers.

May be ICL this year could bring about those changes. Like we see new enthusiasm on hockey side where India is beating all opponents by huge margin.....

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Everything back to cricket | Thursday, September 27, 2007 |

India won the T20 world cup and the whole nation went crazy with jubilation. Mumbai streets got flooded with people and came to complete stand-still to welcome the national heroes. Rewards are being showered on the Men in Blue. And why not? The boys have fulfilled the dream of a nation after 24 years. They deserve a royal treatment.

But what about a nation waking upto other sports post Shahrukh's "Chak De India" ...?? There was this hoop-la surrounding Indian hockey team winning the Asian Cup. That was like a movie story [or dream] coming true or better still - history repeating itself as that movie is said to based on true story. On the wake of 'CDI', this win was the second world cup victory after the '83 victory. But now everything is again back to cricket post this T20 conquest. Who among us now remembers the date on which India won the Asia Cup? But ask anybody the individual runs scored on the final of T20 - and they'll start reciting the whole scoreboard. Hockey faded from our minds as quickly as it had surfaced. SRK and 'chak de' are now not associated with hockey but cricket. 'SRK cheering and hugging the Men in Blue after their win' - this footage is being aired again n again on news channels. But he wasn't there at the Asian Cup final. So, the collective assumption of India is - SRK is endorsing Cricket. 'Chak De' is now cricket's motivating slogan - just as 'Come on India, Dikhado' once had been. Does the Bowl-out between India-Pakistan remind anyone of the finale's scene from 'CDI'? I guess not.

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The national hockey team is genuinly miffed about all this gung-ho. While all the politicians are busy showering cash, rewards and other perks on the cricketers, the hockey team is pushed back into the darkness. Did they receive even an iota of the welcome that the cricket team got that immobilized Mumbai? Leave aside the rewards. After drawing flak from several sections for their step-motherly treatment, the state governments are 'considering' rewarding these hockey players. What a shame....!!! Why do we [specially politicians] always need an external source to jerk us up to our senses? But are they really awake now? Govt.s are gonna reward the hockey team only 'coz they 'asked for it' and to ward off the outcry. Are they really thrilled and proud of their success? And the public making the outcry - are they genuinely interested in Hockey? Are they gonna watch any upcoming hockey match with as much enthusiasm as they show in a cricket match? Ask yourself.

And if you ask me, I'm also not interested in hockey or most of the other sports either. Then why am I being so much touchy and vocal here? Well, that's because I'm an Indian. That's what we do. Begani Shaadi mei abdulla deewana. or - Behti ganga mei haath dhona. If everybody is talking about something and you don't, you feel like left out and idiot. Even if we don't know what's all the fuss is about, we just love to raise our voices and make a 'contribution' to the cause. And that's the end of what we do; make noise and disperse. We don't see to it that the cause is met. "At least I did what I could. Rest is upto the leaders/politicians". Wow. We just look upto the sufferer with eyes of pity and wish that they get a better deal. Same here regarding the Indian hockey team.

We are Indian only on 1 occasion - when we are at war with Pakistan - either on front or on cricket field.

The main reason for their ignorance is, no-one and nothing is Indian in India. There are Bangali, Bihari, Gujrati, Madrasi and so on; but no one's Indian. We realize that we are Indian only on 1 occasion - when we are at war with Pakistan - either on front or on cricket field. Cricket team is the 'Indian' team. Indian hockey team? What's that? Is anyone in it from my state? Such is the state of affairs here 'coz such is our upbringing. And it's not that we look upto cricket as a great sport. We follow cricket 'coz of its glamor quotient. Glamor is the reason why now-a-days some people are taking note of Tennis, thanks to Sania. Suddenly a lot of people are interested in tennis, or better still - pretty faces and delicate curves on tennis court. Apart from some genuine die-hard F1 racing fans, how many follow F1? Karthikeyan was/is having a though time finding sponsors to finance his F1 dreams. Anyone wanna talk about football?

The sudden interest in Hockey was brought about by 'Chak De India'. I'm baffled by how movies drive our outlook in India. It's like we are all blind and movies are leading us cross the road. When Rang De Basanti released, we all took up protesting against 'political and judicial monarchy'. Protest against Reservation and Jasica Lal case are testimony to that. After 'Lage Raho Munnabhai' - it was time for Gandhigiri madrush. It took the whole India one movie to remember the basic foundation of the nation. And now 'Chak De India' to value Hockey or other sport forms in general. But as always, the flame is doused within a couple of months' span. In the latest case, the fade out was accelerated by T20 extravaganza. So, everything is 'back to normal' - as it always has been.


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Girls don't watch cricket ! | Tuesday, September 25, 2007 |

India won the T20 world cup final yesterday. A huge reason to celebrate of course. Most of us must've bunked classes or offices to watch this match. Those who missed can watch the full Indian innings here.

Anyways, I have a doubt. Girls are not supposed to be sport enthusiasts, leave alone cricket. But a good number of girls were watching the match at our office cafeteria yesterday. So, I'd like to know if the much touted theory of 'girls don't watch cricket' true or not.

Here's the poll. Participate in it only if you've watched the final match of India vs Pakistan yesterday, atleast for 15 overs. Vote on 'Male' if you are male and vote on 'Female' if u r female. Ok, that's spoon feeding, but whatever....

Cast your vote.

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Teachers' day and corporal punishment | Thursday, September 06, 2007 |

Yesterday it was the "teachers' Day". Wanted to write something here but couldn't do so due to some unavoidable circumstances. Anyways, am writing it now. The delay is regretted. But at the end of the day, what matters is that I'm conveying my feelings at least at last.

This is the first time that I'm feeling so strongly for teachers' day. Maybe 'coz now I'm not in some educational institute and don't have a teacher. It's aptly said that we don't understand some thing's value unless it is taken away from us. When I was in school / college - I never felt highly respectful towards any teacher. Instead, quite disliked some of them for their high-handedness and their task assignment n all. At that time, the word 'teacher' meant someone who's out there hell bent on making life hell for us. But now that I'm out of college and there's no one to guide me n explain things to me, I realize how crucial they really are.

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Now when I look back at my life so far, I realize how blessed I've been to get those few great teachers. The 1st one who comes to my mind is the headmaster of my kindergarten school. He had spotted something special in me and took special care of me. Mom says the 1st thing I used to do after returning from school was doing my home-work. Guess I was a good student then. I don't really remember much of these. But there's one incident that I still remember as if it had happened just yesterday. It was after I had finished my kindergarten. One day that head master came to meet me at home and told papa "He's a special child. Take special care of him. He'll make it really big someday". Papa was so proud of me that day and so was I. I was bluntly telling everybody that day what he had said.

My next experience with teachers wasn't this pleasant though. I was in class 3 and there was this bully in my class but I didn't pay him much hid. One day he threatened one boy in the class to do as he says or else .... That other boy suddenly stood up in mid class, clutching his stomach and said "Sir, Bikram just punched me hard in stomach". That teacher was a relative of this boy. He just thrashed me for a long time, not listening to a single word I said. By the time he let go off me, I was all bright red - head to toe, as if I'll start bleeding any moment. On my way back home, curious onlookers made me feel sick. Everybody's 1st impression was obviously 'punished for some unforgivable mischief'. Through their eyes, I saw myself as a criminal. I kept running on road, shaking, till I reached home and broke down in tears. Mom went numb on seeing me and papa immediately rushed me to a hospital. A case was filed against that teacher. But he wasn't even questioned by police. He was let go. They said 'he just did his duty. Corporal punishment is a part of school life'. That was when I started hating the word 'teacher'.

Now a days, there's one or the other news of harsh corporal punishment every other day. Most people just skip such news, turning a blind eye. But ask someone who's been through it. Whenever there's one such news, I still feel the tearing sensation of canes raining on my skin. WCD is proposing some strict rules against such barbarism. Some people are opposing it saying 'that will ruin the tender relation between teachers and their pupils'. But what have they got to say about the total mental break down of a child thrashed in the name of punishment?


And now I'm all boiling up again. I actually wanted to write some nice memorable interactions with my teachers; about how Jeevan sir was like a father figure for me, and how sorry I was when I had compelled Vishwas sir to shout at me in mid class and later apologize for no mistake of his. But now that I remembered my class 3 incident, my mood is ruined. Just want to wrap up and grab some coffee. Will tell you the rest some other day.

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Gals love spoilt Playboys | Thursday, August 30, 2007 |

Yesterday I came across this post on Melody's Blog. It's about whether the "Love @ 1st sight" is real. Read lotsa interesting comments and views there. Expressed my views on this. And later, thought of reviving the following post in this context. I had posted it long back in June '06. But later withdrew it from my blog and saved it as draft. But now am reposting it here. Go through this and lemme know what U think of it.



Gals love spoilt playboyz


Believe it or not, that's true. And its not something from Ripley's series; it's a hard core proved fact, I guess many will agree. And it's not an immature guy, babbling it out. I'm writing based on my years of experience.

To make it illustratious from the very beginning, let me tell you the story of my room-mate, Aki (All names are changed). He's currently having fun with his 3 girlfriends (all of them aware of the others) and roping in a 4th one. This 4th one is new gal on the block and doesn't know much 'bout him. So, lemme keep her out of story for some time and concentrate on the rest 3.

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First one is Preety. Well, she is no less than Aki either, character wise. She's big time man-eater herself. Dated more than half of the hot shots of our batch and made out with at least a dozen. No one could hold onto her for more than half of a month. Only exception being her latest date - our Aki. It's being said now that she's finally serious for a steady relationship. But look - with whome..? All her past dates .... all they were madly in love with her but she never gave their feelings a damn, broke their hearts and fluttered to the next Victim when they were of no more use - physically or anyways. But now, she's serious about Aki and wants to marry him. But for our Aki - knowing all 'bout her past affairs - she's nothing more than a wh**e. He gives us vivid description of his 'quality time' with her and makes fun of her. It seems quite evident sometimes that she knows all these, but still she clings onto him.

Before preety, Aki was dating her friend Sweetu. She's a nice and friendly gal. She was aware of Aki's flamboyant image but still proposed him thinking 'my love will change him'. ( caution gals, that never happens). So, Aki took good care of this opportunity and they started seeing each other. Every alternate night, she slept with him and soon became entirely caught in the web. Then one fine day, Preety got interested in Aki and he shifted to the new babe. Sweetu was so shocked to realize that her best friend stole her boyfriend. But still she kept nagging Aki - 'feel my luv' - kind of emotions. When we were shifting our base from college at the end of our college term, she came to the station to see him off and pleaded 'give me one more chance'; while all others were laughing at her.

But before all these happened, there was this gal named Rehana. Honestly, I don't know much 'bout the kind and depth of relationship they had. All I know is that one day she got to know all about him, so he broke up with her. But Rehana still calls him up at least ten times a day. Aki abuses her verbally with each and every word she speaks, all in our presence with cell speaker on. But she never gives up. No matter how much he bad-mouths her, she calls up every day. She acts so pathetic, yaar; she acts like a slave, with no self respect. I wonder what Aki did to her that forces her to stoop to such level everyday.

Aki has shifted his base from Bangalore to another metro of India. Roping in another gal. The point I'm trying to convey here is that gals are not 'satisfied' with a nice n sober guy. They find spoilt and 'Macho' guy - who gives the world 'a damn', and 'f**k the law' is whose mantra, much more dependable.

yes girls do fall in love at first sight. not with you but your wallet.

They think they will provide them greater security as others won't mess with this guy - and evidently they have lotsa money which they can spend on her. And being the girlfriend of the 'Hot' guy gives them a high. So, there's no 'Dil ka mamla' as far as love of a girl is concerned. All they care about is bank balance and hotness quotient. As Dilawar puts it - "girls do fall in love at first sight. not with you but your wallet."

Lemme know what you think of this. And do you believe in Love @ 1st sight? Leave your comments. And cast your opinion on the poll on the left side.

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BlackBerry, w810i and LG 2630 | Thursday, July 26, 2007 |

My 1st BlackBerry
Yay . . I got my 1st BlackBerry yesterday. It felt really great to lay my hands on it. The sturdy, blue body - the giant display [ giant as compared to normal mobile handsets ], full QWERTY keypad - having it in my hand felt awesome. Add to that, the power of what it can do thrilled me to bits.

OK, I guess I'm sounding like a child who just got his 'Robocop' toy. But ya, that's the way it is. Just couple of months ago, I was using the simplest LG 2630 handset provided with my Reliance connection, with nothing but call n sms facility. That drowned and died in Coorg trip. Then I bought my current Sony Ericsson w810i.

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This was is the best thing that I ever bought from my own money. [ My PC was bought by dad ]. This handset has lots lots more than the last one - almost everything that I wanted. A good enough cam, Walkman player and FM, a 512 MB card that ensures that I never run out of space for more music. The extra stereo speakers bundled with it are just mind-blasting with its high bass. And even FM can be played in speaker mode. And I'm not talking about the handset speaker. Any speaker can be plugged into it's headphone port. Hence, when I go back home at the end of working day, I just connect my PC speakers to it and turn on the radio - which feels as if I'm having a WorldSpace radio in my room. The earphone, or earplug as it is called, is the best I've come across till now. It fits perfectly in my ears. Not like those wide disc headed earphones that keep pushing the boundaries and keeps falling out. And ofCourse, the look of w810i is just WOW. It turned out to be a good buy for my 12.7 grands.

But then, it's not flawless either. The default handset speaker is not that good. When I play the Walkman through the default speakers, the sound output is just Okayish, not good enough for a music enthusiast. I have to use the earplugs or the extra speakers for the THUMP. So much for it's "the Thump is HERE" claim.

I have to use the earplugs or the extra speakers for the THUMP. So much for it's "the Thump is HERE" claim.

Speaking of sound, the output from earpiece when you're on a call is also not satisfactory. I have to strain my ears to listen to what the person on the other side is saying. Hell is when you're in a noisy environ, say on road. Again, earplug is the option. It even has a few deficiencies as compared to LG 2630. For instance, to read next or previous msg in inbox, I have to go back to inbox and select next / prev msg and then 'View', whereas in LG handset, I can do the same from the msg window itself. i.e, when reading a msg, I could simply press 'right' button to read the next msg. And, with 810i, I can only set different ring-tones for different person, but not different msg tones, which was conveniently possible with LG 2630.

Well, those are the few highs and lows with the w810i. And if U ask me, whether I'm satisfied with w810i, I'll say YES. Even with its small few drawbacks, it's a good gadget to posses. I am no longer bored at the bus-stop, thnx to the FM and I can capture anything I like with the cam and share it real time. Like this news of BlackBerry. I just shot it with my w810i, uploaded it on my server and am now writing 'bout it. Feels like live reporting. And oh, about this BlackBerry. Don't look for a user review of it here 'coz I haven't used it yet. And it's not mine forever. :( It is given to me to check the process of mail forwarding from Lotus Notes to mobile email client. So, it's with me for couple of weeks. After that, it's Hasta La Vista. So, till then, let's rock with it. Meanwhile, lemme know which mobile handset do U think is the best. Cast your opinion below or leave a comment.


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Harry Potter 7 : Spoiler | Tuesday, July 17, 2007 |

Ok, here's something about the biggest wait of the year. Harry Potter 7, the finale of the wizard who have spell bounded readers around the world. For past few days, there's been rumors about the end of the final book being leaked. Several people described the end of the book, which I guess was just their imagination. Though, the vividness of their imagination amused me. Some die-hard readers gave their predictions, based on some logic. Speculations ranged from Hermione dieing, Hagrid getting killed, Dumbledore resurrecting, Harry being a Horcrux, Peter Pettigrew helping Harry to repay his debt_, and biggest of them all - Harry dieing at the end. Someone even wrote a plagiarized version of the story based on his imagination and released it in PDF form claiming it to be the original. Get it here.

And at last, this morning I came across a link which claimed to be the 'Real Spoiler of HP7' [ just like all others claim ]. I did click on it anyway, and to my utter disbelieve, found it really to be true. The story did make sense and add to that, there are snaps from the book. Snaps of whole 4 content pages and Epilogue pages are given. This is indeed - real.

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Frankly speaking, I don't mind the spoilers. Afterall, I'm not gonna buy the book pretty soon, if I decide to buy it at all. [ I'm hoping someone will gift it to me ;) ] And, there's this urge to know what happens at last. So, this spoiler serves my purpose. This doesn't mean that I won't read the book now. Eventhough I know the end now, I don't know the tids-n-bits of the story. Every page of this final book is going to be a treasure trove. With 4 horcruxes still to be discovered - it's a long ride. So, I'd definately gobble the whole book when I get my hands on it.

I had this terrible urge to post the spoiler link here so that all HP enthusiasts can read it and quench their thrust. But then thought better of it. Others might not share my viewpoint about spoilers. And eventhough they might not want to read the spoiler, the presence of the link will eventually tempt them to click on it - thus spoiling their fun. And in the end, they are gonna curse me to hell. Pheeew. I surely don't want this fury. So, withholding this info. Instead, am launching this poll. Voice your opinion on this poll. Lemme know do U want to read this authentic HP7 spoiler. If I get considerable amount of positive response, I'll post the link here. Or if U can't wait that long, drop your mail id in comment. I'll mail U the link. Keep an eye on this space for further updates.


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Update 1 : 2 PM
For some detailed and interesting facts about Harry Potter 7 (and previous books) visit these links :-Update 2 : 4 PM
This post is currently ranked 3 in Google Blog search with search term Harry Potter 7. If this rank is changed by the time U visit this page, check the rank snapshot here.

Update 3 : 4 PM, 18th July
The spoiler has been removed from its site 'coz of it's authenticity. But I do have a saved copy of that. Check this SuperCool update here. [ contains spoiler link ]
Update 4 : 3 PM, 19th July
The above poll is ended now. The spoiler in link of Update 3 above has also been removed on request from Google. Read about it in details at HP : Repercussion

Closing Note : 11 AM, 20th July
Commenting on this post is now closed. I'm no longer sending spoiler links. Read the final [ for now ] post on this series - Final Countdown.
When Commenting, do leave your name in the field. I got 15 Anonymous here, which is not that good.
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Dirty talk could prove costly | Monday, July 09, 2007 |

I found the following article in last Friday's DNA. Wanted to post it here then itself, but this blogger.com won't let me do that. My 'new post' editor was not opening up. So, it got delayed to this week. Anyways, here it is.

Dirty talk with women could prove costly
Bill to curb workplace sexual abuse wants offenders fined

Men who subject women to lewd and obscene remarks could soon find themselves in serious trouble. The ministry of women and child development (WCD) is preparing the 'Protection of Women against Sexual Harassment at Workplace Bill' designed to defend women against sexual abuse. The remit of the Bill covers offices, aircraft, restaurants, and homes, among other sites.

The Bill is likely to be tabled in the monsoon session of parliament, but not without controversies. The Bill is facing severe criticism from men's organizations which feel that the law, like the DV Act, may be misused by women to settle scores or to secure personal gains. "After destroying the domestic harmony of people, the government is now planning to destroy the harmony at the workplace," said Swarup Sarkar, the coordinator of Save Family Foundation (SFF), a men's organization. "For instance, an incompetent woman worker who is not promoted can use it as a tool against her boss."

Sarkar said the Bill may also affect women's chances of finding employment. "Men will think twice before recruiting women because of the fear of being framed," he said. The SFF has argued in a representation to the WCD ministry that instead of a sexual harassment bill, the government should bring a cross-gender law to prevent any kind of harassment at workplaces. The men's groups are also opposing the new Bill on the grounds that existing laws, such as those on rape and sexual assault, render any fresh legislation superfluous.

But government officials and women organizations reject that argument. "This law would work as a deterrent and encourage women to work without fear," said Romi Sharma, spokeswoman for the National Commission for Women. "The pitfalls in the law can only be found after it is implemented and changes can be made through amendments."

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OKAY. So, here is the BIG question. Who is right here ...?? The WCD for taking up the cause of Working Women who do face a lot of harassment at workplace or SFF who are fighting for the Men who are exploited under such laws... !! WCD has a valid point - that women at all walks of life, specially at workplaces are subjected to sexual harassment and they do need a safeguard to protect them. But I guess this is just half the truth. Men are not spared. In today's age, gals no longer stay away from flirting with their seniors to gain promotions n all. And those who think that the story told in "Aitraz" is just a filmy story, think again. THIS IS happening. So, should men also sought the implementation of a similar law for themselves?

On one hand, we talk about gender equality n all. And on the other, when it's about opportunities, there is uproar to give women special treatment by portraying them as weaker sex. I guess Swarup Sarkar is right asking "the government should bring a cross-gender law to prevent any kind of harassment at workplaces"


I am a newbee in this corporate world. So maybe I don't know the twists n turns of this world. But what I've seen here in past 6 months, I'm pretty much sure that women are not the only victim.

Do give your opinion and views on this matter. Leave your comments and cast your opinion on this poll. Looking forward to it.

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Launching G@P v4.0 | Wednesday, July 04, 2007 |

OK. So, here's my all new look G @ P. Been working on it for whole of last week. And now that it's done (for the time being), I'm pretty much excited with the new look. First of all - it's awesomely colored and clutter free. Some nice ajax scripts makes it snazzy.

This is how G @ P looked before the update.


There was this 'sidebar' with all the navigation options, album and communication tools like - chat, msg board, votes etc. Lots of stuff. And frankly, though those were overloading the page, I couldn't drop them from that page. I ignored the urge to change the UI for a long time due to this reason.

But it was high time to listen to what my readers had to say. Same ol' look is quite boring. So, I finally decided to give it a overhaul make-up. And the result is here. The all new G@P.
Lemme show U around.
The first thing U'll notice here is undoubtedly - the 'Pull' string. Give it a click and see the 'Curtain' rolling down from above. Click it again and it'll roll back into its hive. :) That's the best part I like 'bout it. It has all the introductory part 'bout me and the site. It has -
  • My contact info
  • My Wishlist
  • Feed Subscription Options
  • Site Hit Stats
  • Link to my other Blogs etc.

And there's this bar at the bottom. It's got
  • A Chat window
  • Post Categories / Tags
  • Previous Items
  • Archive List
  • Post Search Box
  • Link to my Flickr, YouTube, Delicious a/c

In addition, there's a 'NavBar' link in 'Curtain' and 'Top' link in 'BottomBar'. Click on these and see another magic. The page automatically scrolls to the bottom and top of the screen, respectively.

Additionally, I've made changes on the Item Page. Layout of Item Page is slightly different than the Main (home) Page and the Archive Page. There's a sidebar here which holds the Post options like
  • Comment
  • Bookmark
  • Create a Link
  • Email the Post
  • Subscribe to post comment feed
  • Top Viewed Articles

At the end of post, there are links for
  • Leave a reply
  • Random Article
  • Link to exact previous article
  • Homepage


I guess that is all we need for a effortless site navigation. Now it's your turn to take part in it. I've taken all effort to make this site Easy to load and error free. But still there might be some problems and bugs. Therefor, I'm asking you to give it a try. Keep visiting this blog, subscribe to its feed, do all you wanna do and write to me whenever U encounter any problem with this site. (U can write to me even without any reasons. I like getting mails. ;) ) And also drop in any improvement ideas U'd like to share, anything else U'd like to see here. Just anything will do. Keep visiting and writing. Have a great day.

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What's wrong .... | Monday, June 25, 2007 |

Read this article in today's DNA ePaper. Was aware of this controversy for past couple of days and didn't pay it much attention cause 'ये तो रोज का नाटक है'. Our desi netas don't pay any attention to our real problems but are very much eager to do moral policing.
Anyways, have a look at the following article snap and lemme know your take on it ...





And also, cast your votes on the following pole -

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